What does sucess look like?

One of the many issues that Barna present in his book is that many parents have the wrong definition of success for their students. The desire that their child would graduate H.S. and get into a good college without being pregnant or addicted to drugs is far short of the Biblical example that we should strive for. So the question I would like to pose and have you respond to is:

“What would ’success’ look like to you in your child’s life?” Or, “What characteristics do you want to see in your child’s life” and “What are we doing to help them achieve this?” Then… How can we as a ministry help in this process?